Tuesday, March 24, 2020

5 WAYS TO WIN A MAN'S HEART WITHOUT HAVING SEX WITH HIM

These are major ways to win a man's heart... 
Cook for him: An adage about winning a man over is through his stomach is true and real. Cooking for someone is to cater basic human needs. Food is parts of the basic needs of life. So cooking for your man everyday most especially when the meal is dealiouS wil make a lady win a man. 

Accept him for who he is: This point is very important because a lady can't change a man completely but can help him to change his ways little by little. Accepting a man for who he is means a lady needs to understand her man so that both of them will be able to live Comfortable. 

Make him laugh: Making a man laugh is very essential in a relationship 

Tell him a secret: Telling a man your deepest secret has a vital role to play in a relationship. Telling him a secret will actually make a man to see his lady as more than a friend and wanting himself to trust her. 

Accepting his family: If a lady wants to win her man's heart, she needs to see his family as her family inorder for their love to grow stronger 

Saturday, March 21, 2020

THE TRAUMA OF BARRENNESS

Many homes today are under this trauma called barrenness. Many marriages are about hitting the rocks as a result of childlessness. 


A man gets married with high hopes and expectations of being called a father in nine months time. As it stands now, it's been ten years and still counting. Yet, no issue. 


At present, he is under real pressure from his parents and siblings to divorce his wife and get another. Reason being that: he is the only son. In lgbo land, any man without an heir or a successor is seen as incomplete. 


The man in question truly loves his wife but the pressure on him is making him have a rethink. 


Do you think it is wise to divorce his wife just because she is incapable of bearing him a child? What is the possibility that the new wife will bear him a child? 

Your opinion please ? 

Thursday, March 19, 2020

HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP LAST LONGER WITH THESE 4 POINTS, NUMBER 3 IS VERY IMPORTANT

I want to believe that this is not a strange or totally new topic to us, but even though there are many theories that surround the strengthening of relationships, yet relationships fail at a very young age. You might have seen many inputs in books, online, from motivational speakers, from marriage specialists, from doctors, therapists, but yet the problem never ceases to stop. I wonder at times why such a thing is occurring.I Wonder at times why we have this perpetual problem of people crying for heartbreaks, relationship problems, and I concluded that the cause is not far fetched. The main aim of this article now is not to discuss why these problems happen and why is that? That is because problems can have one name, the causes can have thousands of names, So talking of the causes would only take all the time we have, so that is why we are going to talk about the practical, general solutions to this single problem of relatiornship failure. Read on... 


1. Friendship. 
Some couples stop being friends the day they begin to date each other, they stop being besties, they stop being BFFs, best friends forever and all they are after then is just lovers! Look, we can not deceive ourselves, loving each other in a relationship can be boring at times, it can be really boring that it is exactly at such a time that there is noo topic to discuss, there is no gist, why is that? It is because they no longer talk as friends, they no longer talk as best friends forever, all they do is talk as lovers and the real problem is when they run out of all the mouth watering topics that lovers discuss, they are left with nothing. A wise man once said, it is best to find friendship and love in a single person. because it is only in such a condition that you can switch from being friends to lovers and trust me, when one side starts to dry, you should easily swerve to the other. 


2. Communication. 
Many lovers have lots of misconceptions about relationships, especialy in the area of communication. Some lovers substitute sex for communication, they go as far as solving quarters, arguments, with sex when they are actually supposed to sit each other down and iron things out. Another aspect of communication in a relationship is the inability of either of the lovers to joke, talk, disturb, play laugh with the other while ina relationship. Communication surrounds everything that has to do with the relationship between two people as far as love is concerned. Lovers ought to discuss, they ought to joke, they ought to talk freely but what happens when there is no long night gist. late night chatting? Late night calls? Al these things are spices to Sweeten the food. A relationship that lacks communication will lack joy a relationship that lacks communication will lack good vibes A relationship that lacks communication will lack understanding, anda relationship without these spices is liable to fall back to the ground. 


3. Money. 
Money is a necessary asset that helps maintain an already love filled relationship. Most people may not agree with this, they believe that love is most important, and they also believe that money is not everything, but I disagree. say that money will solve 50% percent of whatever the problem is. You and your spouse need money. The mindset we have is that a lady that complains when a guy is p0or is a greedy lady, a thief and a glutton but is that the way it isin every case? We stated earlier that communication is one of the things that holds a relationship from falling apart., when we say communication, we talk about couples going on dates, visiting places togethe, vacations together, but are these things possible without money? Even the guy may not know this and he may know but money is a major tool too in a relationship whether directly or indirectly. 


4. Trust. 
This applies to long distance relationships and close distance relationship dating. First thing is even in a close distance relationship, you can't always keep an eye on your lover at all times let alone a long distance relationship where you guys may not even see eye to eye for four or five months. What exactly works for you here? Money does not really do much nor does communication (because at some point, the more time it takes, the stressful it becomes), then the only thing needed here is Trust! Trust is an in-born power that everyone has, and also, can be given out at any time to anyone. When people become lovers, they are trusting each other not to go behind and cheat on them. It's like placing a bet on a football team before the match commence. It is mixed with a little bit of risk too. 

So, even when time starts pulling you apart, work starts stretching the cord that holds you both together, distance starts pushing you guys apart and Little iota doubts begins to grow, all you need is to Remember how you began, trust your partner and forge ahead. 


I excluded love because my point of view is from another angle where I believe that the Two people involved are already in love and not just people who are crushing on each other or people who havent defined their feelings and think it's love but rather,. it is just an infatuation that will fade away in no time. 

Tuesday, March 17, 2020

CHOOSING A CAREER FOR A CHILD IS IT THE RIGHT THING TO DO?

First, a career is something that has to do with ones life. It is ones calling.occupation or profession. Now you see situations whereby a child choose to be a music career and the parents wants him/ her to be a politician. The parents won't give him the chance of fulfilling what he has passion for because of their sole aim. That child might end up reading the career because of his parents and dumping the certificate after four years. Most times when they are doing a career because of their parents they don't put energy in it, they don't put in that effort because its not what they are wiling to do. You realize that even after doing their parents wish they abandon the certificate and try to pursue what they have passion for. My advice to parents(mostly Nigeria parents) is never to force a career on a child because of that big name the career comes with. Instead you help your child by fulfling his/her dream by giving him/her guidelines to follow, support both financially and physically and encouragements too. 

In conclusion,there's nothing as sweet as one achieving/fulfilling the career he/she wants to attain. I believe that when one have passion for something he strives hard to make sure that thing is being actualized. Whats your opinion on this topic? Feel free to share your view. 

Monday, March 16, 2020

DO PARENTS REALLY KNOW THE VALUE AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF PARENTING

I've always thought about this while growing up, most parents don't really have any idea about parenthood. They all believe once they have a child the training will happen naturally but that's a big NO. To be a responsible parent regardless of your standards of living, there are things you must consider: 

1). Readiness: most parents don't have what it takes to be a parent, some give birth out of wedlock while some ladies get impregnated and they get jilted, leaving them to cater for the child alone. They end up raising the child with bitterness, frustration, uncaring heart, and anger They tend to pure out those feelings on the child. 

2). Self belief: every individual have his or her own beliefs (either positive or negative) and they teach it to their children not giving it a second thought what impact that will put on their children. 

3). Self morals: not all parents have the proper ethical or righteous values to raise a child. They don't mind showing of their bad habits right in the presence of their children without thinking about the effects that will bring to the child. 

4). Communication: personally i believe this is the most important and less considered value of parenting, parents don't take in consideration how communication with your child(ren) can help build a strong disciplined foundation with your child(ren). Through communication you can know the strengths and weaknesses of any child and help understand their feelings, it can help discipline a child. 

5). Discipline: every parent have this mentality that a child can only be disciplined with the rode, that's true but not "only" with the rode. There are a other ways to discipline your child and they are very effective. A typical African parent will always consider a serious beating when a child do wrong without knowing that a child can adapt to that pain and keep repeating that same thing over again. Communication should not be the last result, because sometimes it can be too late for that. Parent should develope a goid communication skills that will impact positive values to the children. 

Parent should always take proper measures on how to raise their child. 

Sunday, March 15, 2020

HOW TO USE GINGER TO BURN BELLY FAT IN TWO WEEKS

Ok! Nowadays protruded(big) stomach is very common not only to the aged people but also to our youths, young girls even complain of having belly fat. Different Methods can be used to cures this, but one of the simplest method is using ginger, galic and lime. Here are the steps in making it 

1. Grate the ginger, use two large size then grate in a bow 

2. Grate your galic, used 4-15 normal size grate and add it to your ginger 

3. Cut and press out your lime, make sure the lime is squeezed properly in to a cup then keep aside 

4. Boil your water and then pure it into the grated ginger and garlic. 

5. Sieve it to avoid swallowing the particles 

6. After it has cooled off for a while add your lemon into the warm giner and garlic mixture and drink 

Note :this should be drank at once for immediate effect and this is also applicable to guys. 

Saturday, March 14, 2020

READ HOW PAINTER IMPREGNATES TWO 100 LEVEL UI STUDENTS

When it comes to shocker news, drama, amazing and shocking news, you'll find it in universities. You hear something, and you wonder how those things are happening, as a matter of fact, you wonder if those things are possible. There are so many unbelievable, scary, mouth-dropping, head- turning incidents that may make you wonder if it is happening right in the same environment where you are. On-campus, you hear of students lying to their parents all in the name of money seeking tactics, you hear of ladies or even girls who is fighting over a guy that does not even seem to care about both of them, or newly admitted students already having or fighting over sugar daddies. Such is the case at the University of lbadan. The issue had happened two months ago, but they had successfully managed to kill the fire of the matter, but then, you know how it is with ladies; they never forget an incident, no matter how long. Yesterday around 7:30 pm, a strange noise ensued in the male hostels first, and before anyone could say, Jack Robinson, it was everywhere, on WhatsApp group chat platforms, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, in just a matter of minutes, it had become the most trending news on twitter with more than two thousand tweets and retweets with videos, pictures, memes all carrying #Uipainter. In this amebo article, we will critically examine how the issue happened... Read on. The 2019/2020 session resumed in the early weeks of June last year, 2019 and all the hostels set to renovate their buildings; painted the walls, the rooms, changed damaged window nets, fixed new locks on the doors, repaired all the wal sockets that had spoilt, fixed toilets sit, running water etc. These were the renovations that took place as new students resumed Into the school, but little did we know that some other sexual renovations were going on too in one of the female's hostel, Queen Elizabeth II female hostel. One of the painters assigned to paint one of the blocks in the female hostel decided to shoot his shot on some girls in the hostel, and fortunately for him, the girls fell for him and so he began what one could call causal-sex relationship without the knowledge of either of the two girls that he was dating any other person in the same floor on the same block in the same hostel. The entire matter came to light when he impregnated both girls. It is a real shocker as to how pregnancy could quickly be involved in the matter and not just one but the two girls at the same time. The report has it that these girls divulge their secret ti their friends when they felt helpless, and they did not know what to do. It is true that a problem shared is a problem solved, but it is also true that a secret shared with another ear is no more a secret. One way or the other, the friends must have told someone too and eventually resulting in the leaking of the matter. It was when the matter leaked that both girls got to know that they had fallen in love and had sex with the same person and also got pregnant for the same painter. Now, when the hostel authority got to know about the incident and the girl concerned were identified, they were summoned at once, and it was at the questioning that it was revealed that the girl was young girls of 16 and 17 years of age respectively. Not only that, one of the car girls made a shocking confession that she had aborted the pregnancy once she discovered that she was pregnant, and she did it because she could not bear the shame. The second girl made the most unbelievable confession saying that she is in love with the painter and he is also in love with her, and she was ready to marry him if it came to that, to crown it all, she said that it was the best thing that ever happened to her. It is truly funny and shocking, but what can be done? The die is cast already. Nonetheless, the school authority has decided to look into the matter and investigate the cause of the problem. The guys in their hostel have, however, refused to let the matters slide as they throw shades at the girls as a means of teasing them. Different memes were made yesterday and circulated all over the social media to make jest of the Two girls The guys left their hostel yesterday night when they caught wind of the matter and headed for the female's hostel to Christian, the unborn child; they gave the child names like Odalabi, Paintmarley Colorful, Odayemi, Paintelous, Bright, Odajubelor etc. Not only that, numerous slang have been created by the guys too *Opaint *The girls only wanted a Bright future *The girls only wanted to come out in flying colours *One painter, Two painted. *One paintermeter makes two bellemeter Etc. These are some of the dramas that the guys had put up since the breakout of the incident. 

Friday, March 13, 2020

HOW TO GET RID OF FEET CRACKS

Growing up, I was always afraid to wear sandals outside because I didn't want people to notice the cracks on my feet. And I kept peeling them so it was very painful for me to walk during the dry season. My mum tried using different methods to help me get rid of them but nothing worked. She once got me a lotion to apply but it didn't work either. All I did was to wash my feet very well with sponge to reduce the cracks. This worked for a while but the harmattan weather starts and it worsens during that period. But one day, I came across a video stating different ways to remove cracks and I decided to try 1 method in particular. Candle and olive oil solution. 

How To Use
1.) Slice the candle into a bowl. 
2.) Then add the olive oil and mix very well. 
3.) Rub the mixture on your feet. This method works best overnight. 

It's as simple as that, i know a lot of people are also suffering from feet cracking due to dry skin, weather conditions and sometimes medical challenges. If you are also facing the same challenges like me please endeavour to try the simple method stated above and watch out for results after few days/weeks of applications. My feet are free of cracks and I'm able to wear sandals comfortably. Also, try not to peel the cracks no matter how tempting it can be. Good lucks! 

Thursday, March 12, 2020

ARE CELEBRITIES GOOD ROLE MODEL OR NOT?

Do you think celebrities are good role model. Here are few point to determine if they are good role models or not: Education: Celebrities like Amitabh Bachchan, Shah Rukh Khan, Bill Gates and many more have inspired us towards education. Their work in the field of education is widely recognized and honored. And despite them facing some challenges they never backed down from education. Environment : Celebrities actively participate in environmental safety projects and they work towards environment through cleanliness project, animal safety and many more. Career: A celebrity is only made popular bacuse they have a successful career. Their choice of career is also made popular because they are remarkably doing well in that field. Kids are inspired by celebrities and opt for profession in their field only. Life style: Famous people also share their personal life on social media like adventure, travel, events and they also share various tips on fitness, public speaking, dressing and healthy lifestyle. Children can follow these tips to improve their standard of living. Will power: Almost every celebrity face hardships in all their path of success but they courageously face all these shortcoming determination. Children can learn this never give up attitude from celebrities and implement the same for their studies or anything for positive results. 
Humanity: Celebrities are known for their contribution towards humanity through charities, UNESCO, UNO, WHO projects or they themselves start their own NGOs or walfare associations for homeless, orphaned, disaster-hit people. Unhealthy habits: Some celebrities inclined towards bad habits like substance abuse, alcohol, smoking and some to the extent of involving in criminal activities. Risky standards: Celebrities are used to promoting products and causes. Sometimes, while promoting such things celebrities ignore the public interest. These lead to the question "Are celebrities good role models or not" 

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CHEMISTRY AND COMPATIBILITY

When you hear the word Compatibility or Chemistry, what comes to your mind? Do you find it confusing? or you seem not to understand it? Chemistry is the emotional connection between two people, the way you feel about them is different from what you feel with other people, sometimes it could be likened to you crushing on a person but its entirely different from Chemistry if its a Mutual feelings between both partner, then chemistry exist. 
That little vibes you feel when you are around them, that love thoughts, goose bumps, and fantasy you both feel is what is called chemistry. Most people are Attracted by what they see and as a result grows feelings for each other, it could be their appearance, the way they talk, the way they act, their vibes, them being jovial and the way you react to all that, bring about the chemistry. while Compatibility in terms of relationship means the ability of two partner to co-exist, live together, get along, cope and adapt with each other. Being compact able doesn't mean you guys wont have conflict at times, but compatibility help you resolve your differences. you could have chemistry and not be compatible. If you cant tolerate each bother the chemistry could die. Compatibility is an ingredient to sustain and fuel a relationship. What do you think, which do you feel is better. 

Monday, March 9, 2020

THE PERKS OF BEING AN INTROVERT

Extroversion has always been a preferred personality for some people. No one wants that dull, shy or weird person as a friend, everyone wants to feel among and not be tagged as boring. Extroverts are usually popular and may appear to get all the recognition and fun. They may appear to be the most successful people in the world and so, everyone wants to be an extrovert. A lot of people change their personality just to suit the group of friends they often hang out with and feel like they are in the world. They want to belong by all means, they want to be the "life of the party" they always want to be where it's happening but it doesn't have to be so. Why change who you are to impress other people?

 A Little Story Will Help Buttress My Point. My siblings often mocks me because of the number of friends I have. They always say, "You have only 45 persons on your contact list, whereas have 245, 1 have 302. Your Instagram followers are just 72, whereas I have 2,000, I have 1,500. Your social life is boring, you are an "introvert". I was always pained whenever they tell me these things, I really wanted to have over 200 contacts, thousands of friends and followers on my Facebook, Instagram and Twitter accounts. I didn't want to be that weird one in the group who doesn't always get an invitation to the party and I tried to change that. I began posting more often on my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram pagee to gather more followers, I gathered the contacts of different people I didn't know from group chats, I became loud and spoke unnecessarily and somne people would say i was 'off point. 

At that time, things did change, I gathered about fifty more followers on my Instagram page and my contact list increased to 102, at least I could brag about this to my friends. In reality, I don't talk to more than half the people in my contact and after about a week or so my Instagram followers dropped to 68 as I couldn't keep up with an active account. I was often reprimanded by some people for my character. You have changed' was what kept hearing. I lost some of my closest friends. On several occasions, my Mom called me for heart to heart conversations on my behavior and at that point, I realized that a lot of people who value me appreciates my personality and wouldn't want to see me any difference. 

I never considered myself an introvert, I didn't even want to be one. I honestly always saw myself as the life of the group chats, my class and other social groups. As a student in the Art department aspiring to become a lawyer, I wanted to be social. I thought lawyers were more of extroverts, sociable, talkative, expressive or so I thought.I was none of this no matter how I hard I try to be and this made me feel like I wasn't good enough to become a lawyer. 

Turns out, about 60% of lawyers are introverts. I didn't 1need to change myself to fit in. I am bold and outspoken when I need to be, I have won class debates and other competitions. I didn't need to have 2,000 followers on social media platforms, I didn't need to change my personality to prove to myself I have what it takes to be a lawyer. Irrespective of what anyone tells me, being an introvert shouldn't make me feel less of a person. AIl I needed to do was appreciate whol am and stop trying to be who l'm not. 

There are actually a lot of good perks of introversion. Introverts are good listeners, they are very creative because they are able to realy focus and think. Their originality is top notch as their ideas are often as a result of a focused mind. They are polite and independent, less clingy and obnoxious. In conclusion, who says you need to be talkative, sociable, lively, outgoing or assertive to feel like a person? Who needs 500 faithless and false friends when you have one faithful and true friend? Who says you can't be successful because you are an introvert? Isaac Newton, Bill Gates, Eleanor Roosevelt among others are all successful introverts and you can be one. You shouldn't feel inferior because of your personality rather appreciate yourself, work on making the most of yourself and most importantly, love yourself. All personalities are beautiful and we all came to the world for specific purposes. Everyone can't be an extrovert or an introvert. We all matter so love yourself. 

MANAGING AND BALANCING BUDGET DEFICIT

One very disturbing phenomenon plaguing our nation nowadays is the problem of incurring deficit after mapping out strategies on monetary income and expenditure through budgetary processes. Both the state and federal governments are guilty of this trend which has been a source of anxiety for some concerned citizens of the country. Such people view that there are lots they can do to avoid this unwholesome circumstances. To avoid budget deficit and to restore healthy growth this fiscal year, there is need to adopt certain policy measures, the first of which is the prevention of further slippage in the budgetary process. This ought to be done along with effective co-ordination of fiscal, monetary and exchange rate policies The overhauling of the budgetary procedures need to not be over emphasized, for nowadays, we have our budgets expressed in billions of Naira. The figures are made to be unduly big! There are not only glaring inconsistencies but there is also lack of coherence in the various budgets. Governments must imbibe the discipline to keep within their targets if integrity is to be restored. The idea of spending extra money outside the budgetary provisions should be completely avoided. 

In addition, the absence of effective monitoring mechanism in our budgetary processes contributes to weakening of control over the budget execution. Finally, in order to contain inflation and its attendant pressures on the foreign exchange market especially in the medium-term engagements, the government budget should aim at engaging in fiscal policy that will completely eliminate wastes. 

Sunday, March 8, 2020

FACTORS THAT CAN RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

It can be heartbreaking when you discover that the person you once cherished so much that you could hardly live a day without them has suddenly become a stranger to you. The connection disappears, the love begins to fade away; the affection begins to reduce; the connection then breaks eventually. Most of the time, some couples can pinpoint the exact cause of the failing relationship, while some can not explain the reason they are having problems with their lovers. When a couple can not explain why their relationship is failing, it means there is an undiscovered attitude among them which is affecting the relationship. This article will open your eyes to a certain behaviour that you may not see as a big deal but is secretly ruining your relationship with your spouse. Read on. 

1. Acting like you are alone in the relationship: It is called a relationship because it requires a combination of two separate bodies. The relationship won't work if you're doing "a lone ranger kind of thing. You take decisions alone without carrying your partner along; you take certain steps that are vital with what you share with your partner without her consent; it ought not to be so. You are facing a severe issue that is affecting you, that is eating you deeply on the inside yet you refuse to talk to you partner about it, rather, you prefer to carry it all in your head alone, it ought not to be so. Your relationship is suffering something serious, but you think you can handle a sinking ship on your own. There have been cases where an individual has good intentions of keeping certain things to himself or herself; perhaps it may be as the case or situation warrants, some may not even see the need to throw their partner into worry, stress or panic and so they shoulder it all alone, but I want to say that these are reasons why you are two, there is a reason why you are partners, it is so that you can work together. 

2. Dishonesty: A relationship, where honesty is not observed, will not last, except if both parties intend to fool each other. Cheating is not a new case in relationships; it is something we hear and see all around us, but yet, it keeps happening over and over again. Some people have serious trust issues, and that makes them kind of reluctant to open up to people, but even they eventually do, and that trust they try so hard to keep safe is broken, what do you think would happen? 
When an individual cheats in a relationship, he or she carves out a scar that may never heal on the relationship as a whole, not only that, the partner can neve past. Dishonesty kills a relationship faster than anything else because once the second party realized that he or she could not trust the one person they thought they once thought they could commit their life to, then the idea of breaking upset in. trust such person as they did in time 

3. Lack of communication: Communication begins to waver at some point because the whole thing becomes boring and you suddenly become tired, the girl you begin to retract, you suddenly reduce the amount of time you would typically spend to talk to your partner on phone, the amount of time you spend to text each other all because the topics you use to discuss no longer make sense to you or they have started to expire. Communication is a vital key that boosts relationships; it gives your relationship life; it increases the bond between both parties. The truth of the matter is that what makes you happy is worth fighting for. There is no need to panic when the relationship starts to become boring and dry no, there has been a point where it happened in other people's relationships too, but because they realize it is worth fighting for, they fought for it. Go back to the beginning, go back to being friends, begin to do those things that always attract funny comments from your partner rekindle that fire that is burning out. 

4. Third Parties: Inviting third parties into Your Own life could cause damage beyond repair, let alone inviting a third party into the personal matter between you and your Iover (by the way, that includes his own life too). The truth is that, these people you are calling into your relationship are outsiders and not the person you love, they are not the person you are dating, so even though they may have good intention, there will always be a situation where they pull the wrong string, say wrong things, give the wrong advise that may ruin everything. Your relationship belongs to you and your partner, alone. When you go about seeking advice from different kinds of people, I want you to know that they will advise based on what they have seen and experiences and there is very high chance that you do not have the same experience nor the same problem, so using their solution to solve Your problem can result in the whole thing blowing up in your face. 

Saturday, March 7, 2020

THE BLACK RACE INFERIORITY AND WAYS TO TACKLE IT

The black race was taken into slavery in the 50s and 60s, prior to this period the black has already been considered as inferior race without no form of development in math, or any other artsor sciences, through archaeological discoveries, the first white people that visited Nigeria in 1870 such as Leo Frobenius looted archaeological materials, in his discoveries he claimed that the Benin Bronze had external interference, this analysis was just to say that the black race in reference to Nigeria cannot develop any arts on its own due to the theory that they blacks are inferior to the white. This so ideology has been a belief for so many long years' even till present but questions have been asked such as are blacks inferior to the white? A scholar can claim yes why; this is because in reference to Nigeria with all the so called natural materials she is blessed with her citizens still suffer from unemployment not just unemployment also in a democratic state such as Nigeria citizens are deployed to abuse by arm men who are probably executives of the law. All this issues that have not be tackle or even addressed by the government is leading to the fact that the black can be inferior to the white, this is seen as may African countries are still developing nations. Therefore, questions and suggestions are needed for this phenomenon viewed by the world about the black race in order to liquidate and make African most especially Nigeria a developed nation-state. In this changes times, the system of government need to change with it and step up to a standard required for a developed Nigeria, if nothing is done about it Nigeria will not evolved and that will be according to Charles Darwin man must evolve; "the theory of evolution" so Nigeria must evolve. In a nutshell, there have been several suggestions brought to light by bright minds whom are indeed ready to stand for change, in giving birth to a bright and brilliant Nigeria such spectacular suggestions come from bright Nigeria youths. Why don't we give the young ones a try? For better Nigeria God Bless Nigeria! God Bless African! God Bless the World!