Saturday, April 18, 2020

8 Body Language Signs That Your Man Is Truly In Love With You

1. He tries to make you laugh a lot. 
He is constantly trying to make you laugh. He sends out a lot of ingers and witty jokes here and there just to lighten the mood a little bit. He does this because he wants you to feel comfortable whenever you are around him. He wants you to just feel like you can let loose and be yourself. 

2. He looks you straight in the eyes when you're talking
He wants you to feel his sincerity and his honesty. He is allowing you to take a long hard look into his soul whenever he maintains eye contact with you during conversations. He wants you to feel like you are always able to trust that what he's saying to you is real and genuine. He never wants to give you any reason to doubt him. 

3. He smiles a lot more whenever you're around. 
Whenever you're around him, do you notice him be smiling a lot more? lf he's constantly smiling. then that's probably a sign that he's just a happy guy or that he realy likes you. He genuinely enjoys the company that you give him and that's why he's always smiling whenever you spend time together. 

4. He is always looking towards your direction even when you're in a group setting. 
If you happen to be in a large group, you can be stimulated by the words and actions of so many people. But if he seems to be focusing a lot of his attention on you instead of others, it goes to show that he's very much interested in you. 

5. He takes on a few of your catchphrases and mannerisms. 
Not a lot of people know this but we tend to subconsciously emulate the people we admire most in the world. That's why if you notice that he's starting to borrow a lot of your catchphrases and mannerisms, then it's a sign that he has immense admiration for you as a human being. 

6. He holds your hand whenever you're walking alongside each other.
This gesture is telling of two things: for one, it means that he's very much comfortable with you and he doesn't mind displaying his physical affection towards you. And two, it means that he wants you to be able to feel a sense of safety and security whenever you are with him. 

7. He gets really playful with you. 
Try to think about the times that the two of you are just sitting down and spending time with one another. Does he occasionally play around with your hair or nudge you ever so slightly? If he does, then that is a clear sign that he's into you. Aman only typically does that with a woman he feels completely comfortable with;, a woman he has established a sense of familiarity with. 

8. He raises his eyebrows whenever he sees you. 
"If he likes you and he likes what he sees as soon as he sees you, he wants more of you and soon the aperture of his eyes increases, making his eyebrows raise, says Patti Wood, a body language expert, and specialist. So, the next time you walk into a room that you know hee is in, try to spot for his eyebrows. If he's raising them as he sees you, then you know that that is always a good sign. 

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

5 WAYS TO WIN A MAN'S HEART WITHOUT HAVING SEX WITH HIM

These are major ways to win a man's heart... 
Cook for him: An adage about winning a man over is through his stomach is true and real. Cooking for someone is to cater basic human needs. Food is parts of the basic needs of life. So cooking for your man everyday most especially when the meal is dealiouS wil make a lady win a man. 

Accept him for who he is: This point is very important because a lady can't change a man completely but can help him to change his ways little by little. Accepting a man for who he is means a lady needs to understand her man so that both of them will be able to live Comfortable. 

Make him laugh: Making a man laugh is very essential in a relationship 

Tell him a secret: Telling a man your deepest secret has a vital role to play in a relationship. Telling him a secret will actually make a man to see his lady as more than a friend and wanting himself to trust her. 

Accepting his family: If a lady wants to win her man's heart, she needs to see his family as her family inorder for their love to grow stronger 

Saturday, March 21, 2020

THE TRAUMA OF BARRENNESS

Many homes today are under this trauma called barrenness. Many marriages are about hitting the rocks as a result of childlessness. 


A man gets married with high hopes and expectations of being called a father in nine months time. As it stands now, it's been ten years and still counting. Yet, no issue. 


At present, he is under real pressure from his parents and siblings to divorce his wife and get another. Reason being that: he is the only son. In lgbo land, any man without an heir or a successor is seen as incomplete. 


The man in question truly loves his wife but the pressure on him is making him have a rethink. 


Do you think it is wise to divorce his wife just because she is incapable of bearing him a child? What is the possibility that the new wife will bear him a child? 

Your opinion please ? 

Thursday, March 19, 2020

HOW TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP LAST LONGER WITH THESE 4 POINTS, NUMBER 3 IS VERY IMPORTANT

I want to believe that this is not a strange or totally new topic to us, but even though there are many theories that surround the strengthening of relationships, yet relationships fail at a very young age. You might have seen many inputs in books, online, from motivational speakers, from marriage specialists, from doctors, therapists, but yet the problem never ceases to stop. I wonder at times why such a thing is occurring.I Wonder at times why we have this perpetual problem of people crying for heartbreaks, relationship problems, and I concluded that the cause is not far fetched. The main aim of this article now is not to discuss why these problems happen and why is that? That is because problems can have one name, the causes can have thousands of names, So talking of the causes would only take all the time we have, so that is why we are going to talk about the practical, general solutions to this single problem of relatiornship failure. Read on... 


1. Friendship. 
Some couples stop being friends the day they begin to date each other, they stop being besties, they stop being BFFs, best friends forever and all they are after then is just lovers! Look, we can not deceive ourselves, loving each other in a relationship can be boring at times, it can be really boring that it is exactly at such a time that there is noo topic to discuss, there is no gist, why is that? It is because they no longer talk as friends, they no longer talk as best friends forever, all they do is talk as lovers and the real problem is when they run out of all the mouth watering topics that lovers discuss, they are left with nothing. A wise man once said, it is best to find friendship and love in a single person. because it is only in such a condition that you can switch from being friends to lovers and trust me, when one side starts to dry, you should easily swerve to the other. 


2. Communication. 
Many lovers have lots of misconceptions about relationships, especialy in the area of communication. Some lovers substitute sex for communication, they go as far as solving quarters, arguments, with sex when they are actually supposed to sit each other down and iron things out. Another aspect of communication in a relationship is the inability of either of the lovers to joke, talk, disturb, play laugh with the other while ina relationship. Communication surrounds everything that has to do with the relationship between two people as far as love is concerned. Lovers ought to discuss, they ought to joke, they ought to talk freely but what happens when there is no long night gist. late night chatting? Late night calls? Al these things are spices to Sweeten the food. A relationship that lacks communication will lack joy a relationship that lacks communication will lack good vibes A relationship that lacks communication will lack understanding, anda relationship without these spices is liable to fall back to the ground. 


3. Money. 
Money is a necessary asset that helps maintain an already love filled relationship. Most people may not agree with this, they believe that love is most important, and they also believe that money is not everything, but I disagree. say that money will solve 50% percent of whatever the problem is. You and your spouse need money. The mindset we have is that a lady that complains when a guy is p0or is a greedy lady, a thief and a glutton but is that the way it isin every case? We stated earlier that communication is one of the things that holds a relationship from falling apart., when we say communication, we talk about couples going on dates, visiting places togethe, vacations together, but are these things possible without money? Even the guy may not know this and he may know but money is a major tool too in a relationship whether directly or indirectly. 


4. Trust. 
This applies to long distance relationships and close distance relationship dating. First thing is even in a close distance relationship, you can't always keep an eye on your lover at all times let alone a long distance relationship where you guys may not even see eye to eye for four or five months. What exactly works for you here? Money does not really do much nor does communication (because at some point, the more time it takes, the stressful it becomes), then the only thing needed here is Trust! Trust is an in-born power that everyone has, and also, can be given out at any time to anyone. When people become lovers, they are trusting each other not to go behind and cheat on them. It's like placing a bet on a football team before the match commence. It is mixed with a little bit of risk too. 

So, even when time starts pulling you apart, work starts stretching the cord that holds you both together, distance starts pushing you guys apart and Little iota doubts begins to grow, all you need is to Remember how you began, trust your partner and forge ahead. 


I excluded love because my point of view is from another angle where I believe that the Two people involved are already in love and not just people who are crushing on each other or people who havent defined their feelings and think it's love but rather,. it is just an infatuation that will fade away in no time. 

Tuesday, March 17, 2020

CHOOSING A CAREER FOR A CHILD IS IT THE RIGHT THING TO DO?

First, a career is something that has to do with ones life. It is ones calling.occupation or profession. Now you see situations whereby a child choose to be a music career and the parents wants him/ her to be a politician. The parents won't give him the chance of fulfilling what he has passion for because of their sole aim. That child might end up reading the career because of his parents and dumping the certificate after four years. Most times when they are doing a career because of their parents they don't put energy in it, they don't put in that effort because its not what they are wiling to do. You realize that even after doing their parents wish they abandon the certificate and try to pursue what they have passion for. My advice to parents(mostly Nigeria parents) is never to force a career on a child because of that big name the career comes with. Instead you help your child by fulfling his/her dream by giving him/her guidelines to follow, support both financially and physically and encouragements too. 

In conclusion,there's nothing as sweet as one achieving/fulfilling the career he/she wants to attain. I believe that when one have passion for something he strives hard to make sure that thing is being actualized. Whats your opinion on this topic? Feel free to share your view. 

Monday, March 16, 2020

DO PARENTS REALLY KNOW THE VALUE AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF PARENTING

I've always thought about this while growing up, most parents don't really have any idea about parenthood. They all believe once they have a child the training will happen naturally but that's a big NO. To be a responsible parent regardless of your standards of living, there are things you must consider: 

1). Readiness: most parents don't have what it takes to be a parent, some give birth out of wedlock while some ladies get impregnated and they get jilted, leaving them to cater for the child alone. They end up raising the child with bitterness, frustration, uncaring heart, and anger They tend to pure out those feelings on the child. 

2). Self belief: every individual have his or her own beliefs (either positive or negative) and they teach it to their children not giving it a second thought what impact that will put on their children. 

3). Self morals: not all parents have the proper ethical or righteous values to raise a child. They don't mind showing of their bad habits right in the presence of their children without thinking about the effects that will bring to the child. 

4). Communication: personally i believe this is the most important and less considered value of parenting, parents don't take in consideration how communication with your child(ren) can help build a strong disciplined foundation with your child(ren). Through communication you can know the strengths and weaknesses of any child and help understand their feelings, it can help discipline a child. 

5). Discipline: every parent have this mentality that a child can only be disciplined with the rode, that's true but not "only" with the rode. There are a other ways to discipline your child and they are very effective. A typical African parent will always consider a serious beating when a child do wrong without knowing that a child can adapt to that pain and keep repeating that same thing over again. Communication should not be the last result, because sometimes it can be too late for that. Parent should develope a goid communication skills that will impact positive values to the children. 

Parent should always take proper measures on how to raise their child. 

Sunday, March 15, 2020

HOW TO USE GINGER TO BURN BELLY FAT IN TWO WEEKS

Ok! Nowadays protruded(big) stomach is very common not only to the aged people but also to our youths, young girls even complain of having belly fat. Different Methods can be used to cures this, but one of the simplest method is using ginger, galic and lime. Here are the steps in making it 

1. Grate the ginger, use two large size then grate in a bow 

2. Grate your galic, used 4-15 normal size grate and add it to your ginger 

3. Cut and press out your lime, make sure the lime is squeezed properly in to a cup then keep aside 

4. Boil your water and then pure it into the grated ginger and garlic. 

5. Sieve it to avoid swallowing the particles 

6. After it has cooled off for a while add your lemon into the warm giner and garlic mixture and drink 

Note :this should be drank at once for immediate effect and this is also applicable to guys.